Is He Cheating On Me?
There are several signs to look for if you think your husband may be cheating on you, but lets face it you know him better than anyone. We as women donít need signs, we can sense it. I am not just talking to you as a private investigator but someone who has been there and done that. I am remarried now, and I should have met my husband three times before I met him, but I didnít. That is how many times I drove in and out of the parking lot of a PI office. My advice to you is do it and get the closure, so that you can move on without guilt, or wondering.
I had a feeling that my ex was cheating on me, at the time I was not a private investigator, so I saw a sign for a PI in the community I lived in. Well, I drove in that parking lot three times, and changed my mind all three times; little did I know that this man was going to be my future husband and soulmate. Wow there is a happy ending before you even hear the whole story. I was always fascinated by PI and with my ex became and amateur one, but do not do that. If you gather the facts yourself, in many states it is not submissable in court, and you can be charged with stalking. Well, I am getting a bit ahead of myself. Let me tell you the signs of a cheating spouse.
I am giving you advice as a PI and as someone who has been through it. Take a deep breath. Look at what you have going for you, and yes ladies each of you has so much going for you, hey look you had the intelligence to check out this website. If you doubt yourself it is only because of what you are going through.
Do not let him know you suspect. Do it right, protect, you, your assets, and your dignity. If you think that your husband is cheating on you, get all the facts, so you do not blow it if you are going to go to court. We have seen it happen, and you end up with nothing. Donít tip your hand. Hire a Private Investigator, get the facts that you can present in court. One way or the other you will put your mind at ease you will get the facts that you need to for court, or you will find out that he is faithful, and going through some wacky phase. Nine times out of ten he is cheating and not going through a phase. If you discuss a case with a Private Investigator like us, it is totally confidential. He will never know you hired us, and will never know he was followed.
Is He Cheating Signs
Have you noticed a:
- Sudden increase in time away from home
- Decreased sexual interest with you
- Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming
- Cheating husband or wife is often ďunavailableĒ while at work
- Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work or not wants to go alone
- Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion
- Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone
- Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly
- Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual
- Mileage on car is high yet he / she reports only short distance errands
- Clothes smell of perfume or cologne
- Cheating spouse gets his / her laundry done independently
- Unexplained payments on bank statements
- Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability
- Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration
- Cheating spouse now has a phone card but never used one before
- Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse
- Cheating spouse has suspicious phone voice-mail messages
- Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed
- Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites
- Cheating spouse begins to use new or free e-mail account
- Cheating spouse is suddenly deleting e-mail messages